by Daniel Jackson
Staff Writer
“Hypocritical,” “judgmental” and “discriminatory”—this is what some non-Christians think of the Christianity at Bryan College. But, this isn’t some irate blogger, or a member of the Freedom from Religion group from Wisconsin. These are the opinions of the students at Bryan College who are not professing Christians.
Some come to Bryan because they were offered scholarships to play sports. For Adam, Mike and Mark (their names are changed to protect their identities), America offers a better educational opportunity than their home country. In Europe, an athlete must break into professional sports early—at age 15 or 16—or go to a university, where the athletics are second rate.
America offers a balance for these men between strong athletics and good education. Their decision to attend Bryan was simple—it was the best match from what they understood of the school.
They weren’t prepared, however, for the huge role religion plays in campus life. Although they all knew that Bryan was a Christian college before attending, “they don’t tell you that you will be in chapel three times a week.”
These non-Christians don’t have horns and claws. They sit alongside Christians in classes. They eat the same food and attend the same chapels as any other student.
But they see everything from a whole different perspective.
When Mark first arrived on campus, he was afraid that he could be kicked out or lose his scholarships because he was not a Christian. His parents told him to keep quiet about his views.
“You should never have to ever be scared over being honest,” says Adam.
The Bible classes are hardest for them. Learning with homeschoolers who’ve known what hermeneutics is since the eighth grade and classmates who regularly read the Bible, non-Christians are timid in Bible class. They are scared to ask questions for fear of saying something that is contradictory to what their peers and teachers believe.
More than any of this, they see people who live a fake Christian life—having sex and drinking, yet turning around and judging non-Christians for what they are, not what they do. They see professors who make fun of agnostic and irreligious beliefs, making it hard for them to fully learn about Christianity in those classes.
They see people saying one thing and acting another.
“The church is full of sinners and one of the sins is hypocrisy,” said Ben Norquist, director of spiritual formation. “We’re being refined and redeemed from our sins.”
Having come from an environment that has had very little religious influence, though, their experiences at Bryan have been their first view into Christianity.
For these students, the number of religious rules is chafing. They feel like the campus is controlling and monitoring what they do just like they were juveniles, not full grown adults.
When asked if he would attend Bryan all over again knowing the rules, Mike responded, “It’s split. I love the team. I love to play, but I hate the way I am forced to live.”
Some of their close friends tell them that this is a distorted view of Christianity—forcing people to attend chapel and Sunday church. Adam, Mike and Mark agree. But overall, they have a negative view of Christians after seeing the Bryan community.
However, these students also see another side of Christianity. Some students specifically approach them and become friends, and other teachers listen to what they have to say. ”We don’t have a problem with Christianity, just with specific people,” they say.
They, “see a lot of good in people that you wouldn’t see at home.”
Still, some at Bryan assume that these students have turned their back on God. “I haven’t accepted it, but I haven’t rejected it ether,” Mark answers. “I would rather not be a Christian than be a fake Christian.”